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MalachiMcMullen
07-15-2008, 02:57 PM
It is quite common to go on a strength sport board or even BBer board and see at least 1 thread about idiots in the gym or about guys giving advice who can barely figure out how to get under a bar let alone squat. I have a good one for ya, but it doesn't involve some idiot and it doesn't involve some inexperienced guy thinking he knows it all.

I go a YMCA to train. It's a newer "fluffier" one but it gets the job done and the staff backs me when someone complains about what little noise I make. Anyway, this Y is right next to our local high school and usually around 3-8pm you see a lot of the kids who just got out of school for the day going in to play basketball or swim. Occasionally you'll see someone go into the weight room and do a set or two of bench in 2 minutes and leave. Whenever I go, I go to press or pull so I'm always in the weight room. That means I don't often run into the high schoolers. Well, about a week ago, that was tossed up. There was a kid who came in, probably 5'8" 100lbs and didn't look to be past Sophmore year(I'm a bad judge of age anyway but he looked young). I was in the open area doing overhead presses and saw him come in. I didn't really think much of it other than "Ope, hears another 2 minute workout" and just went back to my stuff. To my surprise the first thing he came in and did were deadlifts. He actually had decent form, no rounding of the back at all through what looked like his work sets. He didn't just do 2 reps and leave either. Just taking a guess but he seemed to be doing 5x5(I noticed that because he was 10ft in front of me the whole time). What did he switch to after that? Front squats on the smith machine. They were a bit high for my tastes but he was hitting IPF parallel for, again, what seemed to be 5x5. He went on to do some back squats, something that looked like good mornings, BB rows, DB snatches, and then some overhead presses as I was leaving. This kid was busting his ass and doing it in a smart way. I didn't talk to him, I didn't think it was necessary. He had good form on a bunch of exercises that I never see the 2 minute kids doing. He was in there for an hour at least, that's when I left, and he was still doing his thing. I thought it was pretty damn inspirational! Here's this kid, skinny as a twig, who's coming into a weight room filled with "the regulars". Guys who come in with me, some BBers and recreational lifters who are all on the upside of 6' and 230 besides myself. He wasn't intimidated and worked harder than I have ever seen any of "the regulars" work AND in less time. A kid who wants to change and actually has the cajones to do something about it.

Paul Rogers
07-15-2008, 03:06 PM
This is along the same lines as when the lifter dads bring in their kids and teach them, it always brings a renewed sense of being when you really see them enjoy it and take too it so well.

Matt Brouse
07-15-2008, 05:09 PM
Get his name. You might be hearing it in a few years. You never know. We all started somewhere.

MalachiMcMullen
07-15-2008, 08:16 PM
Get his name. You might be hearing it in a few years. You never know. We all started somewhere.
That's just what I was thinking!

Jeff King
07-15-2008, 08:57 PM
Next time go up and talk to him or offer him some help. That will go a long way him being accepted by one of the "big lifter guys". Positive role models and all that.

Alex.Truman
07-15-2008, 09:31 PM
I was once a 110 pound Freshman grader busting my ass in the gym. Now I'm a 200 pound Senior who is trying to make it in this game we call strongman.

Take the kid under your wing. I still wish I had someone to train with. I wouldn't care if it was a pro, amature, or a retired competitor. It would have been such a great confidence boost for someone to notice how hard I work and want to help.

MalachiMcMullen
07-16-2008, 04:28 PM
When next I see him, I'll see what he thinks :)

Matt Lebo
07-17-2008, 09:54 AM
This is along the same lines as when the lifter dads bring in their kids and teach them, it always brings a renewed sense of being when you really see them enjoy it and take too it so well.
That's what got me started!

Scott Kaiser
07-17-2008, 10:02 AM
Thats how I got started in powerlifting! I was at the gym doing a routine I had read in Flex and one of the older guys came up and said if I wanted to get strong quit curling and extensions and come over and squat with him and his crew. I didn't take long to find out some of my farmboy strength transfer pretty well to my new workouts.

Corey DuCharme
07-18-2008, 09:16 AM
That's pretty cool! If you want to get to know him, just start by paying him a compliment. (don't read that last line as if I'm giving dating tips please :D )

It's obvious that he has some knowledge about lifting for strength and performance based on what he was doing. Don't jump in with "tips and advice" before you find out more about him. Maybe his dad/uncle/brother is a strength coach/experienced lifter/whatever and is already giving him help. If that's the case, it would be counter productive to muddle his mind up with too many ideas. In that situation, encouragement would be most beneficial.

However, if he's just picking up info on the web and from magazines, some guidance would be of great help.

Either way it's fun to welcome a new comer into the iron game and watch him progress.